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Going on a first date can be exhilarating, nerve-wracking and everything in between. Here's a checklist to get ready

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By Team Lounge
Published Mar 29, 2023

Mint Lounge

While you may have picked the your outfit and planned the day, have you asked what is it YOU really want?

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Self-reflection is key to connecting with your date. Ask yourself these questions to understand yourself

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Question 1: What am I looking for? This sets expectations and prevents misunderstandings

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Question 2: Am I comfortable in my own skin? Instead of asking 'Will they like me?' switch to 'Will I like them?'

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Question 3: What are the boundaries I want to set? Establishing clear boundaries sets expectations between two people

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Question 4: How can I feel safe and have fun? Communicate and ask your date what makes them feel safe 

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Question 5: What qualities do I value in a partner? Know what matters to you and say it

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